My Perfect Breakdown

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I realize that with each passing day he is growing older and changing, and that I’ll never get those baby days again.  Yet, I also realize that growing up is exactly what he’s supposed to do.  So, when Baby MPB was born, rather then mourn the days that are passing, I made made the decision to embrace and celebrate each new milestone that Baby MPB reaches. But last night, as I watched… Read More

When we chose to adopt we knew we’d never see any of our physical attributes in our child.  Our child would never have Mr. MPB’s nose, my eyes, etc.  There was a time when I grieved these things and felt sorrow for the fact that we would never have that. Instead, now I listen to people who know us (and know he is adopted) and complete strangers (who do not know he… Read More