My Perfect Breakdown

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I’m going to dive into adoption stuff today.  And I’m going to be honest, so let me start by saying, these are just my feelings, and I’m not going to sugar coat it but I do hope I don’t accidently upset anyone because that’s never my intention. So, here’s the thing, I read a lot about adoption.  I read blogs.  I read news articles.  I read the odd book (but if I’m… Read More

Yesterday I realized that in order for me to be a mother, it means my son’s birth mother has been erased on his birth certificate.  With the change to his birth certificate and the fact that the original one is basically forever sealed, in the eyes of the government, our son’s birth mother no longer exists as his mother. I find this very unsettling.  Yet, I realize I have no authority to… Read More