My Perfect Breakdown


We had an abortion. We are adopting. The situation was far from ideal, but we did chose to end the life of our child. I am depending on someone else to choose the life of their child so that I can have a child. The irony of this is not lost on me. . I do realize it’s not as simple as this, but on the surface it could be viewed this… Read More

Today marks one year since our last loss. And, it is also one year since what should be our last loss ever. It was only a chemical pregnancy. Which for us, a chemical pregnancy became the definition of an easy loss. We had enough of miscarriages to know what to consider easy – physically, the loss of a chemical pregnancy is just a slightly worse period. By number 5, I was doing… Read More