Working Mommy Life
Being a working mom with a very young baby is hard work in itself.
The most important thing to me in the world in Baby MPB.
But my reality is that I have professional obligations – meetings, deadlines, conference calls, etc. I’m lucky because I can do 90% of my work from home. So even when we have a nanny here taking care of Baby MPB, I am at home in the other room. I’m here in case of an emergency and I can also get baby snuggles whenever I want!
On the days where I have to be on site and away from home for a full day – sometimes 12+ hours. I know Baby MPB is well cared for by Mr. MPB while I’m away so I never have to worry in that respect. But, these days are hard. Initially, it broke my heart to be away for so long, and I was riddled with guilt. Now, I’ve realized that there is some benefit to them as I enjoy adult conversation and critical thought. (More on this another day as I have lots of thoughts on balancing work demands with baby demands with the society pressures re working or not working).
But, this week is a bit different – I have 2 solid days out of the house and one of them is Saturday. And it’s not even for paid work. But it is absolutely necessary.
In my profession, I am governed by a professional association. As part of my professional requirements, I must take a certain amount of continuing education per year maintain my professional designation. Normally, I like doing this as I always enjoy learning something new and meeting new people. In the past, pre-self-employment and pre-baby, I often looked for courses/conferences that were in a fun city, because when someone else is paying the bill, why not go on a mini work vacation?
Now, being self-employed I am much more aware of how I’m spending my money. Because, every dollar spent is one less dollar of revenue. And every moment spent in a course is one less moment spent on paid work and/or baby snuggles.
So, this year I found a really interesting certificate program offered at a local university. You can do the course in 1 year or you can do it over multiple years. I’ve decided to take 2-3 course per year and hopefully finish in in 3-5 years.
The certificate is in conflict resolution. So, they are not specifically related to what I do professionally, but it’s the kind of skill that no matter what I do in life will be useful.
And, as an added bonus, this means that I’m going to drive Mr. MPB mad with all my “practicing.”
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