My Perfect Breakdown


One thing many people have asked me about over the last few years is my willingness to get rid of baby stuff that we are done with.  Apparently lots of people hold onto things sometimes for the possibility of a second child who will use them and sometimes for sentimental reasons. Me, not so much.  I hate clutter (except on my desk which is always a cluttered mess, no matter how hard… Read More

Everyone says not to get too far ahead of yourself in the adoption world.  Don’t set up the nursery until you have the baby.  Don’t start buying things until the revocation period is over. Starting getting only the absolute necessities, but nothing personal until everything is finalized.  Really, it seems like with all things parenting, there is a waiting adoptive parent list of “don’t do this, but do that”.  And it seems… Read More