My Perfect Breakdown


I have been reluctant to write about decision to terminate one of our pregnancies. The decision was made out of medical necessity, and I have no regrets. My reluctance comes from my worry that abortion is such a polarizing topic and I haven’t wanted to throw myself into the center of the debate. Recently I’ve decided to start opening up about our decision a bit more. So, while I’ve been worried about… Read More

I’ve been so consumed by the world of recurrent pregnancy loss and infertility for so long now, that I’ve come to accept or at least tolerate all the helpful comments people offer us: Just relax and it will work next time. Just get a surrogate. Just do IVF.  That helps people get pregnant all the time. Why not just be foster parents or adopt. Just eat more pineapples. Buy ovulation sticks, they… Read More