My Perfect Breakdown


Yesterday I threw myself a pity-party.  I was disappointed in our families for their lack of celebration happening for our adoption.  I focused on how no-one is showing us any excitement.  How instead of instant excitement when we announced our plans to adopt we got comments like Maybe surrogacy is a better option? Are you sure you cannot have a biological baby have you tried everything?  How one side of our family… Read More

My mother-in-law is co-hosting my in-laws baby shower (the same in-laws I wrote about here and here). I received the invite. Thankfully they live far enough away that I don’t even have to contemplate going as we simply do not have the disposable income to pay for the flights. I’m over the fact that no sensitivity was shown to me and there was no acknowledgement of how a baby shower might be… Read More