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Recently, someone started a conversation with me in this manner: Ummmm….I’m not really sure how to ask this, or even if I should…. My thought process:  Oh sh*t, what are you going to say about adoption or loss?  (Given there circumstances I knew they weren’t pregnant, so I didn’t have to worry about that).  Please just don’t ask me questions about the colour of his skin or his time in utero, I’m… Read More

Further to yesterday’s post, I thought I’d share a bit more about my worry about our son’s birth mom. Also, please note I may be slightly politically incorrect as I dive into this, but I mean absolutely no disrespect to anyone.  Rather I am simply being honest about a transition from some of my initial adoption feelings/fears to my existing real feelings. When we first began investigating adoption to grow our family,… Read More