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My thoughts on adoption and breastfeeding are pretty simple: We will feed our child with formula. I am not going to try to induce lactation to breastfeed. Here’s why: I always assumed I’d breastfeed (sort of like I just assumed I’d get pregnant and have living children, and we all know how that worked out). But, because none of our 5 pregnancies got that far, I did not start researching it too… Read More

I have been reluctant to write about decision to terminate one of our pregnancies. The decision was made out of medical necessity, and I have no regrets. My reluctance comes from my worry that abortion is such a polarizing topic and I haven’t wanted to throw myself into the center of the debate. Recently I’ve decided to start opening up about our decision a bit more. So, while I’ve been worried about… Read More