Making Today Better
I’m pretty sure everyone I interacted with yesterday knew I was having a bad day. In fact, one women simply said to me you don’t seem like yourself today. To which I responded, I cannot lie, I am in a pretty horrible mood. It’s really not a great day to have to present to so many people. But, I’ll get through it and tomorrow will better. And hey, it could always be worse.
As I drove home after my day of meetings, I thought about my day and my general attitude about everything. I realized that I just oozed grouchiness all day long. I clearly wasn’t a joy for others to be around.
I’m actually now rather annoyed at myself for being so unpleasant to be around. First off, I tend to keep personal emotions out of work, and clearly I failed at that yesterday. Second, I don’t want to be a grouchy bitter person. That’s not how I want people to remember time spent with me. Third, I’m just generally not that unpleasant of a person.
So, while I am human and I do get to have grouchy days, I would also much rather be a little bit more like my positive self.
And so, I’m determined to make sure that today is a better day then yesterday. I’m not really sure how to do that yet, but it’s only 7am, so I’ve got some time to make sure today is a better day.
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I hear everything you are saying! I am doing my best to be positive today yet work is chipping away at that slowly
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I totoally hear you about work chipping away at the positivity! Days like today make me think that life would be so much better if money grew on trees and I didn’t have to work!
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I hear you! I’ve already changed from positive Polly to pessimistic Paula 😂
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Here’s hoping today is a better day for you. I was in a foul mood most of yesterday, too — maybe the stars and planets were out of alignment? 😉
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Yes I think the stars and planets were out of alignment for both of us. Is today going any better for you?
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I am currently a grouchy, bitter person. Letting go is hard. 🙃
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We all have bad days here and there, it’s allowed! Nobody is perfect, and nobody can be in a stellar mood ALLLLLL the time. Don’t beat yourself up too much. I know you’ve been going through a lot lately, so give yourself some grace and room to flub once in a while. Hang in there friend, hopefully today was much better for you. *hugs*
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I hope you succeeded! I very occasionally have days like that too, where I just can’t shake how crappy I feel and it oozes out onto every aspect and interaction of my day.
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