My Perfect Breakdown

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When we experienced our first miscarriage, no-one knew we were even trying.  In fact, we almost didn’t know we were trying as we got pregnant in our very first month of officially trying.  A dream come true, right?  Well, not so much.  We lost our baby a few days after our first ever positive pregnancy test.  First some cramping, then some spotting and then a full on bad period. We were told… Read More

If I could turn back time, would I do it all over again? Would I delay trying for kids until we were educated and stable in our careers, just to end up leaving my career? Would I keep trying after our first loss? Our second? Our third? And our fourth and fifth? Would I naïvely trust my local fertility clinic? Would I seek out specialized medical expertise sooner? Would I let myself… Read More