My Perfect Breakdown


We started trying when I was 29.  In my naive mind that meant we’d have our first child while I was 30 and our second (and final) by the time I was 32.  Unless of course we got twins on the first try. Instead, none of that happened. 30 was marked by an emergency D&C. 31 was marked by the start of a 29 day long miscarriage and turned out to be… Read More

Recently we were talking with our potential birth mom about the fact that she expects to be induced around 39 weeks (of course, assuming baby doesn’t arrive sooner). First, she asked if it was okay with us if she is induced. Which, so far as I’m concerned as nothing to do with us, but everything to do with her. We have no influence on how or when she delivers. That’s a decision… Read More