My Perfect Breakdown

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Sometimes I wonder, what will it be like to be on the other side? I’m on the other side of recurrent pregnancy loss now, in that we aren’t having miscarriages. But, I’m still in a sort of limbo-land, in that we know eventually we will have a child through adoption, yet we still don’t.  And the timeline is outside of our control. So, as much as I worry about my actual parenting… Read More

So the other day I was at lunch with some colleagues.  Some I know well and others I do not. Somehow the subject of children came up. Somehow the attention turned to me, and I was innocently asked if we had any news to share, with a literal wink and nudge. At this point in time, I just assumed everyone in our lives knows we are adopting.  And when it comes to… Read More