My Perfect Breakdown


So the other day I was at lunch with some colleagues.  Some I know well and others I do not. Somehow the subject of children came up. Somehow the attention turned to me, and I was innocently asked if we had any news to share, with a literal wink and nudge. At this point in time, I just assumed everyone in our lives knows we are adopting.  And when it comes to… Read More

So, thanks to all the wonderful comments last week (which I am still working on responding to – thank you all for your seemingly never-wavering wonderful support and love) about the upcoming baby entering our extended family and our decision not to visit. I’ve realized something: All the drama, the guilt tripping, the upset emotions about letting people down, the anxiety about money, everything was pointless. You see, this issue was solely… Read More