My Perfect Breakdown

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Yesterday I realized that in order for me to be a mother, it means my son’s birth mother has been erased on his birth certificate.  With the change to his birth certificate and the fact that the original one is basically forever sealed, in the eyes of the government, our son’s birth mother no longer exists as his mother. I find this very unsettling.  Yet, I realize I have no authority to… Read More

After navigating international adoption I am pretty used to filling in forms.  I’m rather proficient at filling them in, and I am also pretty darn good at it.  Not to jinx myself, but I’m yet to fill one out incorrectly and have it rejected by any sort of government, agency or lawyer. But, then we were asked to fill out some forms for daycare.  And I’m procrastinated like there is no tomorrow…. Read More