My Perfect Breakdown


If nothing else, the last few days/weeks, have taught me that having a child is an emotional experience.  (As if somehow I wasn’t already aware of this?) For the first time ever we really thought our child was a real possibility.  Then, once again, we thought the future we had been dreaming about was vanishing before our eyes.  And now, we are back to cautious optimism.  (I came to loath the term… Read More

In mere moments our lives went from exciting to pure fear. We’ve had no idea if our adoption match was about to fall apart. We’ve been on pins and needles. I don’t think either one of us have slept much in the last few days. But, this morning we just got word that our legal team explained everything to the birth father and he signed the paperwork to relinquish his rights. In… Read More