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Today marks one year since our last loss. And, it is also one year since what should be our last loss ever. It was only a chemical pregnancy. Which for us, a chemical pregnancy became the definition of an easy loss. We had enough of miscarriages to know what to consider easy – physically, the loss of a chemical pregnancy is just a slightly worse period. By number 5, I was doing… Read More

I have a request for the world – when I talk about adoption, I never ever again want to hear someone say to me, at least you won’t have to give birth. As if that’s some sort of consultation prize for adopting because my body cannot carry a child rather my body just kills them. To anyone who says at least you won’t have to give birth, I want to respond with:… Read More