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  This is a question that my husband and I have been considering for months now. Once we hit the critical 3rd consecutive miscarriage, we knew our chances of having biological children was greatly reduced. So, we started thinking about alternative ways to have children: Surrogacy (not recommended as a solution for us at this point) IVF with genetic testing (not recommended as a solution for us at this point) Donor egg… Read More

When are you planning on having kids? / Are you planning to have kids? / Do you want kids?  In my life before experiencing miscarriage / recurrent pregnancy loss, I’ve been guilty of asking this question, or at least one of the million versions of the question.  I didn’t ask it often, because I knew it was kinda taboo, but now I really get it.  I can now confidently say that I’ll… Read More