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Today is an important day. In fact, in about 4 hours I will face the actual important moment. Today, our pregnancy journey will forever be terminated and with that our path to parenthood will be forever changed. Today, I am finally getting my Mirena IUD inserted. I decided I was ready to get it last month, but the timing of my cycles meant that I would get it the week of Christmas… Read More

I have written before about my personal interpretation of shame and blame regarding our recurrent pregnancy losses (5 consecutive miscarriages).  At the time, we did know have an explanation for our losses, rather we were told that we should keep trying and eventually it will just work. Today, we know more.  We are no longer within the category of unexplained RPL. Wish answers, blame and shame could easily enter into the equation…. Read More