911
Our morning started out just like any other morning. We had breakfast. We were playing. Little MPB climbed up some furniture, as he is known to (in fact daycare has two nicknames for him – Mr. Mellow and Mr. Climber).
While I took Little MPB down from the highest point and told him it isn’t safe to climb so high, Mr. MPB and I commented that at naptime we were going to rearrange the furniture to prevent Little MPB from climbing that high.
We continued to play. Little MPB climbed up some furniture again.
He reached for something. Mr. MPB and I both saw what was about to happen and we both instantly leapt up.
Neither of us made it in time.
Little MPB fell through the air. The top of his head hit the ground first, followed by his neck twisting in a very unnatural way. Then, the remainder of his little body crumpled to the ground.
Mr. MPB instantly was over top of him, holding his neck and head as to ensure he couldn’t move and potentially hurt himself further. With a head and neck injury we weren’t taking any risks.
I was on the phone to 911.
Little MPB was screaming, blood curdling screams.
The EMS arrived and relieved Mr. MPB and took over. Little MPB’s vitals were good. His neck appeared okay, but they weren’t positive, he needed to go to the hospital.
They loaded Little MPB into the ambulance, I sat at his side for his first (and hopefully last) ambulance ride. Mr. MPB followed in a separate vehicle.
We went straight to the nearest children’s hospital. They checked him out and kept him for observations for a few hours. We were given instructions for detecting a concussion in Little MPB over the next few days and were given instructions to follow depending on what symptoms he displays. We were told when to bring him back. Although unlikely, we were also told when to call an ambulance to bring him back in vs driving him ourselves. We were also told to limit his activity for the remainder of the long weekend. In the end, the ER doctor very nicely said:
Little MPB is going to be just fine. You and Mr. MPB have probably aged 10 years today, but you will be fine too.
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So glad everything is ok. How terrifying!
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Completely terrifying! I too am glad everything is okay, now we just have to figure out how to convince him not to climb.
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Good luck.
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I didnt even have to read the post, I saw the title and my heart sank to the bottom of my stomach.
I finally read the whole post and I must say I am relieved but bloody shocked..
I am going to keep an extra eye on A. He also has the tendency to climb the un-climbable.
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It was absolutely terrifying! Our biggest struggle is that Little MPB thinks its funny when we say no. So, if we say no, he just does it again while laughing. We have no idea how to make him understand that no truly means no.
I’m glad if nothing else, it’s a good reminder to other parents to keep an extra eye on their climbers!
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My house looks like a railway station visiting area. Its got all the furniture stacked in a line, against the wall. No furniture is kept anywhere close to anything that can be scaled. We no longer have any coffee tables or center table pieces. Dining table chairs are promptly put down to sleeping position after lunch/ dinner.
Dining tables no longer have runners and all vases are high in storage. All shelves are extra locked, and yes, I have tied the legs of 2 unused couches so that he cannot drag them to climb. Meanwhile, everyday, I take him to the park and let him go crazy climbing the monkey bars.. I am dreading winters, with no place to go and burn out..
Yes, kids do not understand the meaning of No. I have started giving A timeouts for disobedience.
For me, my biggest fear is Arun jumping off the stairs.. My stairs are gated, but he has learnt to scale them bottom gate.
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Don’t even get me started on the stairs! We are petrified of a stairs incident!
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Wheh, holy crap. That is terrifying. I have had to take Wallace to the ER or urgent care 4 times now, but no ambulance ride. Maybe Janet Lansbury’s techniques would help you instead of the no. Wallace still laughs when I tell him to stop so I’m no expert.
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Please tell me more about Janet Lansbury???
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She, and RIE, is big on setting boundaries, explaining things, and creating yes spaces. Respect, communication, and narration. Here’s one link to get you started, feel free to email me or pm on instagram if you need help finding more articles. Her recommendations on meal times helped Wallace and I a lot. Consistency is huge so if you can get mr mbp and daycare all on board with how to handle testing behaviors, it will go much smoother.
http://www.janetlansbury.com/2014/07/4-toddler-testing-behaviors-and-how-to-cope/
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Thank you!! I’ve been reading, it actually sounds like we are already parenting in a similar way.
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Omg I teared up reading this… How terrifying!!! These things happen no matter how vigilant we are, and you acted so fast, knowing just what to do. So glad it looks like you will all be just fine, once you get over the shock of what happened!
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We are still in a state of shock!! Which means we are also super paranoid so much so that we’d put little MPB into a bubble if we could.
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Yikes, glad he’s okay after that!! I’m always afraid of something like this, because C likes to climb too. Kids are scary!
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Kids are scary!!! Looking back, I truly had no idea just how scary having a baby and now toddler would be. Every single day there’s a new fear I have to talk myself out of.
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Oh my gosh that is so so scary! I can imagine how nervous and upset you must have been, but it must be such a relief that he is going to be okay. Sending hugs to him and have a nice big glass of wine tonight to relax! xxx.
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Yes, it was truly the most terrifying event of my parenting life so far!! And yes, so much relief that he’s just fine! That’s probably also the biggest understatement of my life so far. ☺
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One of my best friends has three boys and I cringe at the antics they get themselves into. My heart jumps whenever they even wobbly do something. This is a future nightmare for me. At least there was quick thinking on both you and Mr. MPB (and kindness coming from the doctor). That will put gray hairs on your head! I’m glad everything is okay.
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I couldn’t imagine 3 little boys like Little MPB! Heck, im barely coping with one! Don’t even get me started on the grey hairs, let’s just say I’m thankful hair dye exists!
I despertly hope very soon you will get to know this horribly wonderful parenting anxiety. Love to you my friend.
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Oh my goodness, I actually closed my eyes when I read the part about his neck twisting at an unnatural angle. You must have been so completely terrified, I can’t even imagine. So glad to hear that everything is OK!!!
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Completely terrifying!! I hope to never experience that again in my life!
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Oh hell, my heart is in my throat, Darwin slid off the bed as an infant and hit in a very similar manner. It is the absolute scariest. I’m so glad he’s alright ❤
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Oh gosh, as an infant. Thag must have been so scary! So glad Darwin is okay to! These kids are pretty durable, but it’s still terrifying!
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Oh my gosh!!! Climbing is one of the scariest things these toddlers can do. Anything can happen so quickly! I’m so glad Little MPB is okay. Goodness!
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Hes been a climber for months now but it’s like he’s become more adventerous/stupid in the last few weeks! I’m so glad he’s okay (obviously) and I so hope he never does something like that again!!!
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OMG that is terrifying! Toddlers sure do know how to keep parents on their toes (and going grey!). I’m so glad he is okay. ❤
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So much grey!!! Hahaha! Thank god for hair dye!
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Glad he is okay! So scary!! We have had two tumbles off the lounge and I swear my heart stops until I have checked over every inch of them.
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Yes, tumbles are the worst anxiety!! I’m dreading the fall down the stairs that I’m told basically every kid has at some point. I’m not sure how I’ll survive that kind of a tumble!!
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Oh God, a parent’s worst nightmare. Glad he is ok. Phew.
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Absolute worst nightmare!!!
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Oh gosh! I’m glad everything seems to be all right now. But wow – I can feel your terror through your writing. That must have been harrowing. ❤ ❤ ❤
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Thank you. It really was complete terror! I hope to never experience anything like that again!!
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What a scare! I was actually holding my breath as I was reading! I am so glad to hear that he is okay. ❤
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Thank you so much. We are also, obviously, so glad he’s okay too!!
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Oh my gosh how scary. You poor things. I am so glad he is okay! What a little monkey.
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Thank you so much. Yes, he is clearly a little monkey!! That should probably become his new nickname.
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So so scary. SO relieved he is ok. I’m so sorry you had to go through that
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Thank you so very much my friend. As a more experienced mom, I have to ask, how do you handle these things?!
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oh gosh that sounded so scary! I’m really glad to read that everything is ok!
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Thank you so much. It was probably one of the scariest things I’ve ever experienced!
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Oh my goodness!!! Wow well done for doing all the right things and not panic about it! Scary, glad little MPB (and you guys!) are ok!!
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Thank you Dani. I wonder how a parent is supposed to do all these things when they are solo?? Of course my phone was no-where near where Little MPB was, it would have been impossible for me to keep him immobilized while getting my phone.
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OMG! I am so glad that he is okay. Kids are so resilient! Thankfully!
Baby Bach is going to be the same way… I just know it. He is already a climber. I guess we need to build him a flat and padded play room!
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Oh gosh, I feel for you also having a climber! It didn’t stress me out until that fall, now I’m like, toddler proof everything! So, yes, padding is a great idea! At least according to the EMS. 🙂
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Oh my God. This was terrifying to read, must have been worse for you two. I hope baby MPB doesnt have a concussion and all is well for you all. Much love. Xx
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Thankfully he’s off concussion watch now! He wasn’t really himself for the first 2r hours after the fall, but now he’s back to his normal climbing and smiling self. 😊
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You poor thing. That must have been traumatising for you all. I am so pleased he is ok. Children do these sort of things all the time (Baby Flat had a similar experience), but it doesn’t make it any easier or make you feel any less guilty. I just hope the little monkey learns to be more careful 🙂 (until then, maybe get him to wear a cycle helmet all day every day!) x x x
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I love the cycle helmet all day every day idea! I’ve been suggesting covering him in a layer of bubble wrap too. 😂
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Omg how incredibly scary. I’m so glad he’s ok!!!!
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Yikes! How scary. I’m hoping he’s doing well and that you and the Mr. are as well. As you know I sustained a head injury in July, so I can only imagine the terror you felt for your little one. Hang in there!
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This is one of my biggest fears. I hope you guys are okay.
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Oh my gosh! How scary….I’m glad he is okay!!!
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